chore(proto): add buf config for codegen and lint

Relaxes STANDARD lint rules that conflict with the terse service
shape from ARCHITECTURE.md §7.2 (shared Empty, no Service suffix).

buf.gen.yaml

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+version: v2
+plugins:
+  - local: protoc-gen-go
+    out: proto
+    opt:
+      - paths=source_relative
+  - local: protoc-gen-go-grpc
+    out: proto
+    opt:
+      - paths=source_relative

buf.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+version: v2
+modules:
+  - path: proto
+lint:
+  use:
+    - STANDARD
+  except:
+    - PACKAGE_DIRECTORY_MATCH
+    - SERVICE_SUFFIX
+    - RPC_REQUEST_STANDARD_NAME
+    - RPC_RESPONSE_STANDARD_NAME
+    - RPC_REQUEST_RESPONSE_UNIQUE
+breaking:
+  use:
+    - FILE